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Writer's pictureSaluja Siwakoti

the inexplicable love for earrings

Updated: May 25, 2022


you were so close to me

like lips close.

like CO2 came out of your nostrils and ruffled my eyebrows.

your breath sultry-fied the air

i was breathing

i wondered how your bearded chin would feel on my neck.

as i waited for you to come closer, i counted

the lines on your forehead

do you think a lot ?

or are you just easily amused?

am i just one of them?

if i kissed you would i taste the aloo in tiptopko samosa?

or the timur in momoko achaar?

would i taste your obsessions?

or would i taste thai candy corn?

the one you had and hated?

would i get a taste of your taste of distaste?


i held your sweaty palms unusually, casually.

when you whispered i looked fly in earrings

i heard several things.

i heard “you’re so hot right now”

i heard “tell me who you are”

it was your inebriating voice

until something pulled me down and told me

intoxication is precarious.

i heard them saying “boys will be boys”

as they braided our hairs for school

i heard myself panting on my way to the morning bus

before the watchman dai in narayan galli

eve-teased my thirteen-year old, basically non-existent breasts.

i heard her frantically throwing the steelko vase in the living room

when he didn’t answer where he'd been the night before.

who he was with.

i heard her telling me “bhaigo. forgive him, k garnu”

i heard myself saying i like earrings too.


the whole summer fling thing came

like my periods without cramps

post cranky, happy,

it ended.

like the advent of colorado winter.

the sun is deceiving, summer is officially over.

we talk as though nothing ever happened

because it didn’t. right.

sometimes, you say things.

something about this haircut going unexpectedly well on my face.

unsophisticated taste buds, sweet plum wine.

something entrancing in someone you meet

something about being too uptight

about being a closed book

and how i should put myself out there.


i’ve been trying to understand what that means

because the men I saw around me tried being fathers

but never lovers

because i could forgive but can't forget

i can't say bhaigo to those who

explored their bodies through mine

before i could pronounce assault

let alone understand it.

how should i put myself out there?

the closest i had come to was

coming close to kissing you

and it scared me. it scares me.

i hear the banging of the steelko vase.

then shrieks behind latched doors.

i hear “kiss him”

then “you’re too close”

trust me,

i don’t want to.


perhaps flipping through these pages is too much to ask.

the book cover is made in plutonium

i am

heavy,

scared to be vulnerable but lure-able,

believer in love.

i didn’t

try enough

i thought

you would.

now you’re the subject of my poem?

i deserve better.

lately, i’ve been buying myself more earrings.

27 since September.

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